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these hummer Flowers link god's  life gift as romantic attractions for you to enjoy.


 
The Rite of Spring   -    Le sacre du printemps

 searching...within a garden for flowers.   The hummingbird seeking a flower and inserting their tube to draw out the nectar from within always reminds me of the sexual contacts of a man and woman. This is the subject of an eBook study. The hummer seeks exploration of new flowers to renew itself, and so it naturally seems does man with woman "flowers". The surprise today is that the internet and media  free and expand for women the role of flowers for anonymous man hummers.

There is a lure of understanding about god's temple - the human body - and the feeling s about the lure of mating plays within our mind.. Perhaps DNA causes us to just search and seek the pleasures of life.. Just as the hummer moves from flower to flower so to does man and woman have such a fleeting instincts for contact. Left to our own desires perhaps this short moment of contact is satisfying by being alone with our sensations.

Ralph D. Waite
or
Ralf de Waiet

 In 1075 A.D., William the Conqueror gave the Earldom, city and castle of  Norwich, in England, to Ralf de Waiet, the son of Ralf,  an Englishman, by a Welsh woman; this son marrying Emma, sister to Roger, Earl of Hereford, cousin of the conqueror, etc. This is the earliest record so far found, and the sources from whence all bearing the name of Waite seem to trace their origin. 

Waite Crest above is thanks to http://www.waitegenealogy.org

   Dexter....the name, rather than just middle initial "D" or "de"
It is doubtful that Earle and Bess Waite knew the "D" vs "de" history on the left side of this page when they named my father Ralph D. Waite. Since Bess's father was John Dexter Osborn the "D" came from him. But it is curious that in Waite early history there is a use for "de".

I have been know as Dexter in high school and college. I really never thought about the name, since I came into the world with it.  My father had the same name so I was called Ralphie by my relatives.

In college, the fraternity pledge life cemented Dexter as my name. It was good to be accepted as Dexter not Ralph.

After college Dexter didn't seem business like when surrounded by William, Robert and John - so Ralph was good for 40 years.

Now that I have done some ancestry checking, There was my great-grandfather John Dexter Osborn and his father Dexter Schuyler Osborn.  I respected what they did with their life. So, Dexter has taken on a new meaning. Today I use the name, with pride.

It is surprising how names change in meaning. It depends on whom the name reflects in the listener's mind. I also now like the Dexter in me again. Welcome back Dexter....or is it Ralf?

Ancestry starts with romantic attractions!
Hummers make flowers into bloomers
It all starts with an instant of sexual romance. Ancestry passed DNA gives us our physical human body or Temple and appearance characteristics.
But then God's "soul" is transferred to this Temple and it is what makes us a unique individual.
Soul allows us to go well beyond this physical Temple. The Soul continues after the Temple is gone.

I started the concept of a family cousin based on a long journey searching within ancestry, history, religions and life's learning to find a perspective: Heredity is all about DNA  - since the body & face are on loan as the temple from God - and it is what you get. But what I see in each face is a given (transferred) from God or - a "soul" that becomes what is made of it in life - when combined with a person. This soul never stops even after life's temple is gone. More than heredity is in play with soul in that perspective on life. We can be agnostic in earthly temple belief but never without being aware of our own soul mate. We see family characteristics in generations. With each ancestry generation it is often difficult to separate the DNA side from the Soul side factors..


No wonder the soul seeks to renew the flower contact - since this connection rewards life just as the hummer does from the flower.

dexter@dexnow.com